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Author: Michelle Warner

Free Holiday Printable

12 / 23 / 161 / 18 / 17

Our to-do list as moms at Christmas time can feel a mile long.  So much to do and so little time.  We’ve been talking a lot about holiday expectations as a blog team (here and here) and how we can stay centered on what really matters during a season that can take “busy” to a whole new level.  It’s not easy, but it’s amazing how much freer we are feeling as we tweak our holiday to-do list.

In honor of this, our wonderful graphic artist on our team, Lisa, designed a free graphic for you to download to help keep this perspective at the forefront of your mind. All you have to do is subscribe to our blog and you will automatically receive the beautiful print in your inbox!

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To close the blog team wanted to share our thoughts about how we are trying to stay focused on the most important things on our to-do lists this holiday season.

Michelle
Michelle

Buy presents →  Be present

I’ll be honest here: being 100% present with my girls has been a lot harder in real life as a mom than the idealistic views I had of motherhood. Recently I have been praying about how to be more present with my girls and one thing I have tried when I have work to do is saying to my four-year-old, “I have to finish this email (or laundry or whatever) for ten minutes and then when I am finished, let’s do __.” It has been good for us and has helped me be able to finish my task but then put my phone down and focus on her and her sister (some days better than others). I can tell when I even spend ten undivided minutes sitting on the floor doing a puzzle or coloring with her, she feels more filled up. This is challenging for me to do when my list feels never-ending, especially during the crunch time before Christmas Day, but I am asking God to help me focus on what’s most important.

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

Wrap gifts → Wrap someone in a hug

Jesus’s birth was the ultimate outpouring of love and hope into a World that was otherwise without any.  As I think about the LOVE that Jesus modeled to those around him, I can’t help but want to more fully love those around me this season in the most simple of ways: a hug.  It may come in the form of hugging my kids longer after bedtime stories, or by making it my priority to hug my husband right when he walks through the door, or perhaps by taking time to talk and hug a friend who is having a rough week. Regardless, my goal this Christmas is to stop racing around and start paying attention to the people around me, the people who may need a little extra embrace.  Come on, don’t be shy…..who needs a hug? ??

Ashley
Lisa

Send gifts → Send peace

The news from around the world is ugly! It’s clear that peace is not humanity’s default mode. I’ve learned this year that it takes effort to create peace, and it takes effort to protect peace. And though it can be so hard to know how to help those far away from us, we can create and protect peace right around us. Since peace is close to the heart of Jesus, we try especially hard during Christmastime to create peace in our neighborhood. We knock on doors, deliver cookies, leave cards, and have as much conversation as our neighbors are willing to offer. We feel more known and connected, and more secure; we so hope the neighbors feel the same. Sending peace into the world can be as easy as getting to know and respect the people around you!

Jessica
Jessica Sorosiak

Make food → Donate food

Instead of stressing over planning the perfect meal or worrying about whether the ham is perfectly cooked, we try to turn our focus on how we can help feed into others, literally.  We plan to go through our pantry and gather up canned food that can be donated.  We use some of our Christmas money each year to buy granola bars to keep stashed in our cars to pass out to people in need that we come across.  My mom keeps fast food gift cards in her car for the same purpose. There are so many ways to feed others and share the love of Christ through food.

Jessica Sorosiak
Anna
Anna

Make cookies → Make love

One of my mentor moms once told me that during the busy Christmas season, we need to put our husband on top of our “To Do List.” Haha??  (She really did say that!) But let’s be real here — amidst our mile-long list of things we want to get done by Christmas Day, making love could fall way down on the list (or not make the list at all, because who has energy for that at the end of the day? Especially when you’ve got 80 more gifts to wrap!). But think about it — when you are stressed, your husband is stressed, and no one is having fun. You may have to endure tense family situations, long trips, whiny kids… Why not make time and energy for the number one relationship in your life? “Escape” from it all for a little bit? It’s a great way to relieve that stress and help the two of you feel connected again. Then you’re able to enjoy the holidays as a team.

Anna
Laura
Laura

See the lights → Be the light  

I actually really love to look at all the beautiful Christmas lights!  (I remember writing about that!) Can we SEE the lights AND BE the light?  But, seriously, I’m so inspired by you guys… again!  You have really summed up being the Light  What better way to be shine God’s light  than to be present with  our kids, and snuggle, and give small gifts of thanks to those who serve us and our neighbors.  To be ready to bless others with what we have been given in abundance. Loving others is the way to be the light! Last night I was coming home from basketball practice with Jesse in the car, just the two of us, which is rare. I asked him what he was most excited about for Christmas?  He said, “Opening presents!… And getting to be with my family… And celebrating Jesus’ birthday.”  I nearly cried.  If nothing else this year, it seems he saw God’s light in my life. He must have seen that in our list of things to do, there was something deeper about this whole Christmas thing.  At the end of the day, my little guy is just that- a real boy who wants some toys, but who loves his family and wants to celebrate the Light of the world.

Laura

Merry Christmas from the Texting the Truth team! We pray that the next few days are  filled with peace, joy and light as your perspective shifts this holiday season. ❤️

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Mom Win Wednesday: Anna Brink

12 / 21 / 1612 / 23 / 16

Michelle
Michelle

Today we’re excited to feature one of our blog team writers, Anna Brink!

Michelle
Anna
Anna

Hi! Here’s my selfie! The mop of curly hair in my lap belongs to my four-year old, who is inevitably on my lap in the mornings.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Ha, I can relate. Do you wear any other hats in addition to your [big, gigantic, hugely significant] Mom Hat?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

I’m a wife, daughter, sister, and aunt. Those are also hugely significant hats to me. But beyond that, I am part of the Communications Team at my church. I work on everything from the website and social media to writing and editing. Speaking of, in addition to Texting the Truth, I write for the women’s ministry blog at my church called Our Redeemed Lives: Imperfect Women Made Whole in Christ.  I love using my communication skills to support the awesome ministries at our church. Also, in my free time (haha), I direct a middle school musical in the winter at the school I used to teach at. Right now we are dancing to “Move It, Move It!” in Madagascar Jr! 

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

I love what you said about being a mom, wife, daughter, sister, aunt first. As moms we can do so many things but that’s such a good reminder that those primary roles are so special. For me personally, I don’t want to get caught up in wearing all of my other hats that I lose sight of how important those primary roles are. Thanks for sharing that. So tell us about your kids…

Michelle
Anna
Anna

We have a 10-year old daughter, 7-year old son, and 4-year old daughter. These three are beautiful, funny, challenging, surprising, predictable and yet unpredictable, all wrapped up into one pretty cute package (or at least we think so). ?

I feel like I’m entering into an interesting stage of motherhood (not like there was ever a dull moment). But I’m at a point where I have a pre-teen, entering puberty and asking all pre-teen-type questions; a preschooler, who still just wants to play puzzles and marvel at the clouds; and one in the middle, who just wants to toss the ball and play with me (like  constantly). They are all at such different stages of their childhood (which is fun), but I feel like I need to switch gears all the time.
And I want to say, honestly, to my friends with little ones: If you are worried that after your babies grow up, there won’t be any “precious moments” anymore…there won’t be cuddle time or bonding time…there still is. It changes; it looks a little different. But every stage has its precious moments, the ups and the downs that come with the age.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Love that. What is a recent mom win you experienced that took time and perseverance to accomplish?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

My ten-year old has been struggling in school for the first time, ever. She’s always coasted through, working hard but loving every minute and not needing my help. She learned how to read with ease, loved doing her homework, and tested gifted in many subjects. This year, however, things changed. Her teachers said she was withdrawn, wasn’t participating or talking, had missing assignments, and seemed “zoned out” most of the time. She’d sneak to read her book under her desk instead of pay attention in Social Studies. This wasn’t like her at all. In fact, this was the opposite of her “normal.” Welcome to middle school.
After weeks of talking to teachers, talking with her, crying, praying, talking with my husband, and giving her strategies to try in class, and working with her in the evenings, she seems to have jumped this hurdle. Or at least, we are finding a way to jump it together. It has taken perseverance every day to help her get to this point. We are so determined to get her through this year, and most importantly, to get her to participate and regain her confidence in school.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Thanks for your transparency in sharing that. I know all of us moms can relate to how much perseverance it sometimes takes to  help our kids win. And as you mentioned, when that happens, it is a big win for us as mom too.?

So what is a mom win that you would text your best friend?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

My son’s reading is now at the Level G! This is great news because he started off the first grade this year a little bit behind and not liking reading much at all.

 

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

? YAY! Anything else you want to share?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

I’m learning in my personal and spiritual life that I can trust God to guide the direction of my life. I can tell Him about the things that weigh down my heart, and He will answer. My job is to trust, and to follow, as best as I can, in faith. Faith is a muscle that we have to use in order for it to grow stronger.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

I can definitely attest to that in my own life too. Thanks so much for sharing today. I respect who you are as a mom and so thankful you share your insights with us.

Michelle

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