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On Loan

12 / 16 / 161 / 18 / 17

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Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

I am so embarrassed.  Yesterday during John’s “quiet time”, he was calling out for me and I went in to check on him and he had ripped a page from a library book to SHREDS.  Tiny little pieces everywhere!  I was absolutely horrified at what I saw!  ?

Jessica Sorosiak
Anna
Anna

Oh my gosh. I can totally imagine what that must have looked like!!! ?  What did you do? I probably would have cried.

Anna
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

I was close!  I gathered up all of those little pieces and spent more time than I care to admit piecing them all together and taping them up.  I basically had to make a “page” of packing tape and stick the pieces to the page.

Jessica Sorosiak
Ashley
Ashley

If it makes you feel any better, I’m impressed with your puzzle skills. Lol  ?

Ashley
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Ha! I returned the book to the librarian and begged for forgiveness.  She just took the book without a second glance and said not to worry about it.  She even thanked me for my repair job!

Jessica Sorosiak
Anna
Anna

THANK GOODNESS for kind people who don’t make moms feel worse in situations like that!!!

Anna
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

I know!  I was expecting some disapproving looks and an immediate fine on my account.  

Jessica Sorosiak
Ashley
Ashley

Oh, I’ve made a number of small cash donations to our local library.  I view it as my special little charity at this point. Ha!

Ashley
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

What a great cause to support ?

So while I was driving home I was playing this whole library book debacle back in my head and I realized that our bodies are a lot like library books. I know it sounds crazy but I wanted to talk this through with someone, so just try to follow me for a second!

Jessica Sorosiak
Anna
Anna

OK…I’m with you!

Anna
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

God is like a landlord of our bodies.  He’s letting us rent them out for free.

Jessica Sorosiak
Ashley
Ashley

I like thinking of it that way. It’s like He’s saying to us – when you take care of the body I entrusted to you, it makes me so pleased. Like an artist, admiring His handiwork!  

Ashley
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Exactly! But sometimes we struggle to maintain His work of art. I know I don’t always make the most healthy choices or move my body as often as I should.  And how I view my body can be so off sometimes too!

Jessica Sorosiak
Ashley
Ashley

…..And dropping the Christmas cookies now ??.

Ashley
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Haha!  This is exactly what I mean, though! Instead of trying to hide those struggles from God, He wants us to pick up the pieces and bring them to Him.

The amazing part is that He will lovingly put those pieces back together and forgive us without a second thought…just like that sweet librarian.

Jessica Sorosiak
Anna
Anna

I think you are so right! Sometimes we want to just push our messy parts aside and forget about them, whether it’s related to our health, our relationships, or our parenting. But God wants to gather those parts up and put us back together in a stronger way. I love that idea.

Anna
Ashley
Ashley

Amazing that you found such great truth from a really frustrating library book situation!

Ashley
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Thanks!  I also learned that John is not to be trusted with library books any time soon! ?

Jessica Sorosiak

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Soaking in the Truth

Scripture to encourage you:

    • “Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.”
      ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6:19-20‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    • Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  Matthew 11: 28-29 NLT
    • No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.  Romans 8: 37-39 NLT

Music to inspire you:

  • “Never Too Far Gone” by Jordan Feliz 

Readings to come along side you:

    • Take Care of Your Body by Pastor Rick’s Daily Hope
    • 5 Reasons Why God Wants Us Healthy, Well and Fit by Faith and Health Connection
    • Hide This, Not That by True Woman
    • For women struggling with their postpartum bodies –  Accepting Our Postpartum Bodies by iBelieve

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Living Out the Truth

Ideas to try:

    • Take a minute to reflect on what you are struggling with right now. Is there something you can bring to God in prayer? Ask Him to help you put the pieces back together.
    • Do something healthy for your body TODAY!  It doesn’t have to be a lifestyle overhaul – that will just leave you feeling overwhelmed.  God sees the season of life you are in and He understands what you are capable of doing in this moment.  Eat an extra fruit or vegetable, have a dance party with your kids, park farther away from the store, pass on dessert.  Each small choice you make towards your health honors God!  
    • Reflect on things you may be trying to hide from God.  Many of us have areas of our life that we try to keep hidden because we are afraid of how God will respond if they were brought into the light.  Soak in the amazing truth that He already knows and loves you anyway, and invite Him into those messy places and ask Him to use them for good. Replace the shame you may feel with God’s deep grace.

{These suggestions are ideas from novice moms. Sometimes our life situations need more. In that case, seeking out professional help is the right call.}

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Taking Pride Head On….Literally

12 / 12 / 164 / 19 / 18

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Ashley
Ashley

Have I got a story for you!

Ashley
Anna
Anna

Yay! Your stories are the BEST, Ashley! What happened?

Anna
Ashley
Ashley

So, Claire had her first dentist appointment, and I genuinely didn’t know how it was going to go. She is usually pretty easy-going and she loves to brush her teeth, but you just never know if they are going to freak out when they’re in the chair.

Ashley
Michelle
Michelle

Oh my gosh, I can only imagine. I do not think Sophie will sit still long enough for them to do anything!

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

Grace will sit, but then she gets upset when they use the “yucky toothpaste.”  

Ashley
Anna
Anna

Yeah, Libby too. She gags. ?

Anna
Ashley
Ashley

Claire, on the other hand, cracked up through the whole thing.  She literally liked it better than Kings Island!

Ashley
Michelle
Michelle

Haha! Really? I bet you weren’t expecting that!  Just when you’re prepared for a response they throw a curveball with a totally different one than you planned!

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

They sure do! As I was walking out, there was a little boy her age who was screaming his head off.  The dental hygienist looked at me and said, “that’s what is normal at this age.”  I kind of welled up with pride.  I know it’s wrong but I was thinking….phew! Better them than me.  

Ashley
Anna
Anna

Yeah…just being honest, we’ve all thought that at some point.

Anna
Ashley
Ashley

And then Claire in all her excitement ran head first into the counter and fell to the floor screaming.   Motherhood: Don’t get too prideful, because you will be humbled fast.

Ashley
Michelle
Michelle

I just busted out laughing and I am so sorry because I know it’s not funny but it sounds like totally something that would happen to me!! Isn’t that true? The minute I think I have something figured out, I definitely have a humbling experience like that.

Michelle
Anna
Anna

Oh my gosh, that is SO TRUE.

Anna
Ashley
Ashley

?  Everyone was staring at me and she was just inconsolable.  Go figure: she makes it through an entire dentist trip without crying, until we get to the front desk where an entire waiting room of people can watch you. It literally ALWAYS goes that way.  I know God doesn’t like pride, and man, are children a quick fix for that.

Ashley
Michelle
Michelle

Honestly, that is one of the hardest parts of motherhood, isn’t it? ? The part where everyone watches you handle a hard parenting moment and then you begin wondering what they’re thinking or how you’re handling the situation.

Michelle
Anna
Anna

YES, it is!!! Especially when Benjamin was little, I always felt like the world was staring at us. Probably because I was constantly feeling out of control! ?  ?

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

I guess like you said, it’s another form of pride because it goes back to – what are they thinking of me? When I start acting like my kids are an extension of me or a report card on how I mother, that is when my focus is totally in the wrong place.

Michelle
Anna
Anna

Pride, ouch! #TruthRightThere #HardToHear

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

When our kids are being rockstars and totally making us look like we are mothers of the year, it can be hard to keep a level head.

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

Yep! Experienced that one today.  I was really loving my mom skills in that 10 seconds before it all went wrong. lol

Ashley
Michelle
Michelle

Haha! We just have to remember that yes, we try to instill some good character lessons and teach and guide them, but no, their awesome behavior in this moment is not because we have totally figured out this motherhood thing. Some days I really wish it were that way. But right when we think that, we get a wonderful opportunity like your dentist experience or my Ellie’s grocery store meltdown today!

Are you still there?

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

Sorry….I just got headbutted crazy hard.  Grace jumped on the couch and cracked me in the head in the middle of me texting you. I have frozen peas on my head at the moment.

Ashley
Michelle
Michelle

Oh my gosh! Are you okay?

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

LOL. I’m okay.  Disoriented but okay. Hey, these peas are just helping with the pride I was swelling with earlier today.  God sure does have a sense of humor. 🙂

Ashley
Anna
Anna

Awww! You poor thing! Trying not to laugh because I also feel badly for you! ?

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Oh Motherhood. Always keeps you on your toes, or I guess in your case, with peas on your head. Hey, the only positive is since you are thawing those on your head, maybe you can use them for dinner?

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

This better be the best dinner ever….but if it’s not, I will humbly admit it. ?

Ashley

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Soaking in the Truth

Scripture to  encourage you:

  • “In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders.  All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, ‘God opposes the proud  but shows favor to the humble.’ ”  1 Peter 5:5
  •  “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”  Mark 10:45
  • “He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.”  Psalms 25:9
  • “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” Philippians 2:3

 


Music to inspire you:

  • From The Inside Out by Hillsong United

 


Readings to come alongside of you:

  • Walking in Freedom as a Mom from The Better Mom
  • When You’re Failing at Motherhood and Everything Else {times ten} from The Better Mom

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Ideas to try:

  • Recognize when you are starting to swell with pride, and lay it down right there in that moment.  Pray for the Lord to replace pride with the very opposite- humility.  Humility by definition is “the quality or state of not thinking you are better than other people.”  Jesus was the only perfect person to ever walk this Earth and he flipped the script by humbly serving those around Him.   If we earnestly seek and pray to be more like Jesus,  humility will be sure to follow.
  • Remember what God has done for you in the past.  Praise Him for His faithfulness and remember that every good and perfect gift, day, and/or moment is because of His mercies.
  • Reflect on the fact that our worth as moms is not dependent on our kids’ behavior, good or bad.  Our worth comes from being valuable in the eyes of the Lord; that’s a gift that no amount of good (or bad) behavior can change.

{These suggestions are ideas from novice moms. Sometimes our life situations need more. In that case, seeking out professional help is the right call.}

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