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The Real Stuff(ing)

11 / 23 / 1611 / 17 / 17

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This Wednesday we want to celebrate Thanksgiving in the Texting the Truth style, because it’s always a win when we choose gratitude.

Laura
Laura

It’s my favorite time of year, Ladies!! Thanksgiving!  I can almost smell the turkey now!  And don’t get me started on the stuffing.image1

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Ha, I could leave stuffing in a heartbeat! For me it’s the yummy pumpkin pie! It makes me think of my sweet Grandma. ?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

This is your favorite? Really?? So much cooking and cleaning… 18 million different dishes laid out on the table… Then my Libby will sit down and probably eat one dinner roll and say she’s full. ?

Anna
Laura
Laura

I know, I know! Thanksgiving brings its stresses and even sorrows, but I thought we could just take a moment today to focus our thoughts away from all that and truly be thankful.  So here’s the big questions: What are you most thankful for this year as a mom?

Laura
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Such a hard question to wrap my head around!  But an important one to ask myself, particularly this year as I struggle with parenting two strong-willed little ones. Even in the hard times, I’ve learned to praise God ? – so I’m thankful for those kids that challenge me daily.  They have grown my patience and exposed my weaknesses so that I can lean more on God to redeem those areas of my character.

Jessica Sorosiak
Michelle
Michelle

Amen to that! ? Since you took what I was going to say (haha)…I am most thankful for the way I get to see life through their eyes. Sometimes I get bogged down with all I have to do and then I hear Ellie yell, “doggy!” and run to the window. I love how she finds joy in the little things and for a mama who can be a bit glass-half-empty, it is really good for me to stop and soak in the beauty that they notice. So this year I am really grateful for the blessings of these girls and the way they help me remember what life is all about. The quote that I have resonated with all year sums that up – “Gratitude turns what we have into enough.” Ah, just so thankful for what I have in my rambunctious but loving little girls. ?

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

I am most thankful for the gift of being here to watch my girls grow and blossom this last year.  It’s such a blessing (one we often take for granted) to just simply be here for the day in and day out- preschool drop off, holiday parties, playdates, feeding ducks, doing craft projects, etc.  Those little everyday activities become the memories we treasure, and I am SO thankful that I’ve been blessed with another year of them. #sappymama

Ashley
Anna
Anna

Thanks, guys. You’ve got me teary-eyed…? ?  I’m just thankful that this year, they are all old enough to clear their dishes from the table. ?

No really… (Well that is true, but) I am also thankful for all the ways they’ve grown this year — their physical health and their little and big steps all along the way. It’s easy to miss any maturity happening in the day-to-day, but when I look back at a whole year ago, I see it.

Anna
Lisa Langenhop

I could make a list a mile long for this year. I probably claim that most years, but I mean it emphatically and passionately this year! Oh boy – can I pick three? It’s holiday time and we were scared that my family would be mourning the loss of a baby during the season, but we aren’t! We have two healthy and new baby boys to celebrate. This year I’ve enjoyed getting to know my two-year-old as a distinct personality. And lastly I’m so grateful for the various teams of support that have come aside my little family through the year – they bless me and they bless my kids!

Desi Kippes

Well, I think you guys said it all. ? Oh wait, I got it. I’m thankful for the way my kids spread joy to those around us. It’s similar to the way they leave their sticky handprints everywhere we go. ? People light up and smile when they see us coming. (Sometimes it’s because they have no idea what they’re in for, ? but generally it’s because there is just something about little kids that makes you smile.) I’m talking about everyone from grandparents to the grouchy store clerk. ?So I’m thankful that my kids are able to bring a smile to someone’s face. My prayer is that they will always bring joy to others.   

Laura
Laura

Wow! What can I say? I knew when I asked this questions that it was a little cheesy, but these answers inspire me! I’m so thankful to be a part of this team of mothers who notice the deep and wonderful parts of parenting.  Thanks for sharing the real stuff(ing) of mothering.   

My turn.  I’m thankful that my boys are learning.  Sometimes I forget they learn from everything.  Then I hear this knowledge come out of their mouths when I least expect it.  When the twins start talking in the backseat of the van about what letters various words start with.  When my little guy learns to say “wee-oo, wee-oo” when I ask him what a firetruck says.  And watching Jesse figure out how to sound out a word for the first time.  Most of all, I l love watching them learn about our Father in Heaven.  They make faith seem so easy some days, but then they ask some tough questions too!  I’m thankful they can learn and that they are learning and that I can learn right along with them!

And like you Jessica, I’m thankful they change me! Like you Michelle, I’m thankful for what I see through their eyes.  Like you Ashley, I’m thankful for the “mundane.”  Like you Anna, I’m thankful for how they have grown.  Like you Lisa, I’m thankful for their actual lives, their personalities, and friends who support me and them.  Like you Desi, I’m thankful for their joy spreading abilities.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Laura

And so we leave it here…  What are you most thankful for this year as a mom?

 

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Mama Bear Fear

11 / 21 / 1611 / 21 / 16

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Anna
Anna

Girls, help! Ashton has entered into a new stage of her girl friendships… Last week, I overheard certain friends being really catty with each other, leaving out other girls on purpose… ? ?

Then I started paying more attention, and I see it happening every day!

You all know that she just turned 10, so I guess this is normal for her age. But I’m stressing out about it!

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Oh my goodness, just reading this brought me back to that age and I remember how mean girls could be. I hate that she is having to experience this. And you too, sweet mama!

Michelle
Anna
Anna

Now I’m super paranoid and wanting to listen in to every conversation. I want to rush in and stop nastiness from happening, but I know I can’t!

How can I protect her without overprotecting?

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Good question…?

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

Anna, you are one of the sweetest people! And I think she is naturally going to learn these things from you.

She is going to see what kind of friend you are to people, how you forgive HER when she is not obeying, and how you respect those around you. I think you’re doing more steering than you realize. ?  

Oh the girl world, it can be a scary place when people aren’t being nice!

Ashley
Anna
Anna

I know! And I want to steer her in the right direction of good friends and respect for other people, but I also know there is that delicate balance between steering her and micromanaging. ?

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

I agree. I also think in these moments we are teaching them that they don’t have to own everything someone says to them.

When my niece’s feelings were hurt over some mean-girl comments, my sister-in-law wisely said to her, “You get to decide what you believe about yourself.” ?

How powerful that we can teach them that other people’s words don’t define them, but most importantly God’s words about them do.

Michelle
Ashley
Ashley

I love that! It also gives us the chance to teach them to be builders not destroyers, to be peacemakers not instigators, and to choose to stand their ground even if it means standing alone.

By His grace what others use to hurt, He will use to refine. No one ever said refining was fun though! ?

Ashley
Anna
Anna

I love that too. Thank you.?  Sometimes I forget that trying to control or “fix” the situation isn’t what God is asking me to do. And this growing up stuff can be used for good. Thanks for steering me away from my mama-bear fear.

Anna

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Soaking in the Truth

Scripture to encourage you:

    • So we can confidently say, “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?”  Hebrews 13:6
    • And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.”  Matthew 3:17
    • “I praise you because I am beautifully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”  Psalm 139:14
    • “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get?”  Matthew 5:44-46

Music to inspire you:

    • Every Bit of Lovely by Jamie Grace

Readings to come alongside of you:

    • “How Do I Talk to My Daughter About Being a Good Friend?” from Dannah Gresh’s “Secret Keeper Girl” Blog
    • How Does God See You? from She Is More Blog.

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Living Out the Truth

Ideas to try:

    • Take your daughter out for a special treat and talk about the four areas from the article above. Focus on how your daughter can BE a good friend. (The last paragraph in Area 2 will help you to talk about the girls in her life that might not make the best friends right now.)
    • Pray for the girl(s) who are not being nice to her right now. Pray with your daughter. Use Matthew 5:44-46 to teach your daughter to show love, even when it’s hard.
    • Talk your daughter about the concept of not owning everything that’s said to her. How can she gracefully handle the situation but not let it affect her negatively?
    • Look at the verses about identity (above) with your daughter. Discuss with her – what does God’s Word say about who you are?

{These suggestions are ideas from novice moms. Sometimes our life situations need more. In that case, seeking out professional help is the right call.}

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