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Mom Win Wednesday: Kim Albrecht

6 / 14 / 174 / 12 / 18

As a mom, you may not have qualified for the Rio Olympics, but you certainly deserve a spot on the podium in our eyes. There are no “perfect scores” in motherhood, but if you had a discipline breakthrough, managed a meltdown, or found time in your day to pursue a dream, then we want to take a moment and celebrate alongside you. Even the little “victories” add up to be big wins in the long run; so let’s champion each other. After all, we’re on the same team.

Jessica
Jessica

Today we are featuring Kim Albrecht on Mom Win Wednesday.  Kim, share a picture with us and tell us a little bit about it!

Jessica
Kim

I’m Kim Albrecht and almost blocked this text strand when asked for a photo of myself and the kids. It’s June! Shouldn’t I have until Christmas to come up with a presentable photo? Tricky move, ladies. Here is one I dug up from February. It literally is the only picture in existence from the last several years with all three of us in it. Hey, this picture might look good on a Christmas card!

Jessica
Jessica

Haha!  It would make a great Christmas card…Christmas in July?? ??   So, what other hats do you wear other than the much underrated Mom Hat? 

Jessica
Kim

The hubs and I have stepped into a pretty cool thing as a result of just doing “what’s next” as we hear from God. We launched a website, podcast, and social media pages for our organization, LOMAH. LOMAH is an acronym for the Land of Milk and Honey and is for special needs families. Tom & I, as special needs parents, believe God has a Promised Land full of abundance in Him. However, we must be careful of roadblocks with the potential of keeping us out of the Land of Milk and Honey. Two biggies are fear and relying on our own strength. Our spiritual ancestors fell into these traps and it is easy to do! Especially when the future is so uncertain for our special needs daughter. The website is www.lomah.org and it includes informational resources as well as inspiration for the journey to your Promised Land.

Jessica
Jessica

Wow!  What an amazing resource!  As someone who used to work with teens with special needs as a School Psychologist, I know that is a world that is so hard to navigate and tap into for resources.  What a beautiful community you are helping to create.

Tell us a little bit about your children.

Jessica
Kim

I have 2 daughters ranging from preteen to teen. Our youngest is a swimmer, reader, talker, helper, and has the potential to own 14 cats as an adult. She loves those furry things. Our oldest is a giggler, lounger, observer, and cat antagonizer. Those furry things stay far away from her.

Jessica
Jessica

Ha! I’m with your oldest!!

Share with us a recent mom win you experienced.

Jessica
Kim

Recently, I have been slaying airplane travel. BAM! Nailing it! It can be quite tricky with a special needs daughter who has significant disabilities and there have been years of nightmare trips. One time it was so bad a flight attendant offered me complimentary wine! Picture the bathrooms in an airplane. Now picture a mom in there trying to change the diaper of a teenager who is taller than she is. Are you catching my drift? Anyway, we live in California and do a cross country trip at least 2x/year and over time, have acquired some great tricks. Episode #2 of the LOMAH podcast dishes out 10. Regardless if your children are able bodied or disabled, there are golden nuggets in the podcast if you are traveling this summer. It’s only 30 minutes. Check it out!

Jessica
Jessica

Air travel with kids is not something we have tackled at this point, but I think we may have our first flight coming up next winter, so I’ll have to check out the podcast.  And how nice of that flight attendant!  Bless those people who can spot someone who needs a little friendly “pick me up”.

What is a mom win that you would text your best friend?

Jessica
Kim

I dug through some actual text strands and found this win: “I ate sushi without you”. This was a win because my BFF had just moved out of state and I was missing her big time. Our Wednesday ritual involved cheap grocery store sushi in the middle of kid chaos. Carrying on with out her felt like a win.

Jessica
Jessica

I can imagine!  When friends move away it can be such a soul crusher!  What are some words of encouragement you could share with other moms?

Jessica
Kim

We are never alone. Ever. Like, never ever. Not in the midst of our deepest struggles, not in the middle of the night when we are up AGAIN, not even when our BFF Sushi partner moves across the country. There is a blog post on the LOMAH website where I talk about the time I felt alone and how God filled the space. You can find that HERE for some more encouragement. 

Jessica
Jessica

What a beautiful post and such a great reminder that God should be our #1.  Thank you for sharing a little piece of you with us all today, Kim!

Jessica

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Letting Go of the Mom Ideal

5 / 7 / 175 / 7 / 17

 

 

Ash

This morning I got the baby dressed in the most adorable little dress with a matching bow. She looked so cute I could hardly stand it! Two minutes before we were supposed to leave the house for church, she had a major spit-up situation on her and me. So much for looking cute and put together. Not exactly how I pictured the morning going!

Anna
Anna

Oh, I remember those days with my first born! It NEVER seemed to fail that whenever I would get her all put together with her cutest dress on, there would be some kind of spit-up or…the other kind of explosion!!

Anna
Ash

Ugh. So many bodily fluids in babies! ? I’ve learned to take pictures first thing in the morning so at least I’ll have one with her in the cute outfit and matching bow.

Anna
Anna

Smart lady! It’s hard though, when things don’t turn out the way you planned.

Anna
Ash

Exactly! I have this picture in my mind of how the day is supposed to go, which usually involves Millie AND me looking cute and put together. I struggle to let go of that picture in my head when reality is a much different one!

Anna
Anna

Yes, I can definitely relate. That makes me think of Sunday mornings before church. I get so frustrated! Then I’m a grumpy mom on the way to church. (Awesome.)

Anna
Ash

Why are Sundays always the crazy mornings when things go wrong? I hate arriving at church feeling like a hot mess! ? But really it’s a daily occurrence for me as a new mom! So now that you’re three kids in, what’s the secret?!  ?

Anna
Anna

I won’t say I don’t try for cuteness anymore, but my expectations have been lowered… haha… like waaaay lowered. #WhenDidYouLastHaveAShower ?  

But seriously, I think the first step is letting go of that ideal image that’s in our minds.

Anna
Ash

I think you’re right. It’s exhausting to try to maintain that perfect image, anyway!

Anna
Anna

It really is! ?

Anna
Ash

I was thinking about what I pray for Millie . . . I pray that she loves Jesus and follows Him all of her days. I pray that she is kind and smart and joyful. None of that has to do with how cute she looks. Though I do think she is one cute baby. #biased

Anna
Anna

(Well she is!) But we know that God looks at the heart, while we often get caught up in the appearance from the outside.

Anna
Ash

Totally. Seems like that truth is an easy thing to forget when we’re trying to surrender that ideal image we create for ourselves. Especially when we’re trying to get out the door on time with everyone wearing shoes!

Anna
Anna

Everyone gets out the door with shoes on in your family? You are a success, girl! We went to family pictures last fall and my son had only one shoe on. #truestory
But one day I realized… No one cares what we look like. In fact, if we are NOT all put together, it might make some other non-totally-put-together mom feel NORMAL. So it could be the best thing!

Anna
Ash

So you’re saying NOT living up to your own expectations as a mom is actually a good thing?

Anna
Anna

YES! It’s not my natural tendency, but when I want to change my perspective, I have to give up those crazy-high expectations of mine and stop trying to maintain that image. This not only takes the pressure off, but it lets me focus on what’s going on inside instead of outside.

Anna
Ash

I could definitely get on board with less pressure to be the perfect mom!

Anna
Anna

And added bonus: I get even more connected to the people around me because they know I’m keeping it real.

Anna
Ash

That is really inspiring and encouraging and something I would like to grow in. It’s a struggle not to be so focused on all the ways I don’t live up to my own expectations that I miss all the really amazing things about being a mom. And let’s be honest, looking cute all the time is kind of over-rated. I would wear my stretchy pants all day every day if I could. #realmomlife

Anna
Anna

You go girl! Thanks for making me think this through today. Now I have to go curl my hair. (Just kidding!) ?

Anna
Ash

Don’t forget to take a picture! ? ?

 

Soaking in the Truth

Scripture to encourage you:

  • 1 Samuel 16:7: But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
  • Lamentations 3:22-24: Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, “The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.”

Music to inspire you:

  • Free to Be Me by Francesca Battistelli
  • I Surrender (LIVE) by Hillsong United

Readings to come alongside of you:

  • Motherhood and the Art of Letting Go
  • Examining the Myth of the Perfect Mother

Living Out the Truth

Ideas to try:

  • Adjust your perspective. When something doesn’t measure up to your expectations, check to make sure your expectation is realistic. And if you end up disappointed, see it as a reminder to let go and focus on the positives.
  • Remember that God is more concerned with the condition of our hearts rather then the condition of our outfits. There is no perfect mom, or perfect child, for that matter! So it’s OK to relax and keep it real!

 

 

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