Texting the Truth - Real Moms, Real Grace
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • BlogLovin
  • Email
Menu
Skip to content
  • Home
  • Our Story
  • Our Team
  • Treasured Products
  • Contact Us

Tag Archives: time

One Long Day at a Time

9 / 10 / 189 / 11 / 18

Janelle

So what did you think of the cool weather the last couple days?

Laura
Laura

Finally!  A refreshing taste of fall!

Laura
Janelle

Yay! Fall is coming! I love fall! It’s my favorite season. Although I feel like seasons change as rapidly as my seven-year-old changes her clothes sometimes!

Laura
Laura

Tell me about it! My 7-year-old could wear four outfits in a day because of dirt, sweat, rain, mud, more sweat, and did I mention dirt?!

Laura
Janelle

I know what you mean! Kids! 🙂 It keeps us moms busy with piles of laundry! My days are seemingly consumed with it at times! ????

Laura
Laura

That season will never change I guess… we’ll always have laundry!

Laura
Janelle

Until the kids go to college! Eeeek!

Laura
Laura

Oh, goodness!  Let’s not think about that just yet. ?

Laura
Janelle

Definitely. One day at a time. I have to remind myself that God is right here with me each step of the way. My purpose may get lost in the laundry sometimes, but God still has me right in His hands, doesn’t He?

Laura
Laura

Thankfully!  It’s hard when the days are full of the tasks and chores motherhood brings.  If I focus on it too much I get a little oh, I don’t know, almost depressed.

Laura
Janelle

Yes but sometimes it’s easier to focus on the tasks instead of the people God has around me. I really want to slow down and take it all in. You know, enjoy those sweet little moments with my kids or the funny things they say. Soon enough, we will be in another season, and those moments will be gone! My 10-year-old will turn into a teenager and my baby won’t be a baby anymore!

Laura
Laura

Ahhh!  Stop time!!  Maybe what I’m feeling is a longing in my heart to hold onto my babies.  I want to freeze the time I have with them. Because you’re right, before we know it, they will be teenagers… college kids and then… gulp… adults!

Laura
Janelle

Isn’t it an amazing responsibility we have as moms?! It’s a split of long days and short years, watching them grow. When those days seem long, I want to remember that God is everything I am not. He is strength when I am weakness, He is wisdom when I am at a loss.

Laura
Laura

That is some good truth!

Laura
Janelle

Well, they’re more than just words for me because right now, I am going through a struggle where I’m holding onto this truth! I need God’s wisdom with some issues with my one-year-old because she is tiny and doesn’t eat much. I know He will work it out, but when? How?

Laura
Laura

It is hard to be patient as He works, isn’t it?  Especially when it involves a struggle with our little ones.

Laura
Janelle

Yes, I just want to snap my fingers and be able to take care of everything. I’m her mom after all. But I can’t force her to eat, and if she’s not feeling like eating, she won’t. Even if it’s for several days in a row. Now those days seem long! I know there is something wrong, but I don’t know what. I need God’s wisdom to show us the way.

Laura
Laura

Those are painfully long days, Janelle!  All I can say is I know He is with you every step of the way, isn’t He?  He knows what is going on with your little girl. He knows the beginning and end of every season of our lives and hers.

Laura
Janelle

Yes. He miraculously made every part of her and knows the answers to all the questions, the how’s and why’s and what’s. That is sooo amazingly comforting! I can do my part as her mom, advocating for her, using the resources God has given me, and then trusting God to do His part.

Laura
Laura

And we have such an amazing promise too, that He will work all these struggles out for our good.  I know that can seem trite when you are in the middle of this season, but when we don’t understand the whys of the struggles or even the whys of certain seasons, we have to hold onto the truth of His promises.  I don’t want to see you struggle in this season of motherhood, my friend. I don’t want to see that dear baby of yours struggle. But I’m going to hold onto this truth with you.

Laura
Janelle

Thank you, friend. Holding onto truth is sometimes all I’ve got. I know He is strong and when my frustration is high, when my heart is heavy, I can come to the One Who has healing, wisdom, peace in His hands. He stays the same through all our seasons. He is the one constant in a world of unknowns. All the way from beginning until the end… until my time on earth is up.

Laura
Laura

And while we don’t know when that will be, I know the God who knows.  But I have a feeling that when we have the wisdom to know the One who knows, we don’t have to worry about when that will be.

Laura
Janelle

Yes! He knows each tiny detail of my life. Though time can pass quickly, each moment is known and seen by God!

Laura
Laura

Whether that’s when we are drowning in laundry or waiting on the BIG answers to serious concerns with our kids.. And someday our grandkids. ?

Laura
Janelle

Now who’s jumping the gun?! 🙂 Just kidding. You’re right though. The truth is that God is in all our days, from beginning to end. And everything in between. He’s the same yesterday, and today, and forever! That truth definitely comforts this mama’s heart!

Laura
Laura

?

Laura

Soaking in the Truth

Scripture to encourage you:

  • “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die,” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2a, NIV)
  • “He has made everything beautiful in its time.  He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” (Ecclesiastes 3:11, NIV)
  • “See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” (Ephesians 5:15-16, NKJV)
  • “I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.” (Revelation 22:13, NIV)
  • “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” (Psalm 90:12, NIV)

Music to inspire you:

  • “God of All My Days” by Casting Crowns
  • “Masterpiece” by Danny Gokey
  • “Cinderella” by Steven Curtis Chapman
  • “Amazing Grace” by Selah

Readings and Resources to come alongside of you:

  • I know it’s nearly impossible to find time to read, but the commentary in many study bibles gives some interesting perspective on this chapter and these verses.

Related Posts on Texting The Truth:

  • Beautiful in His Time: A New Season

Living Out the Truth

Ideas to try:

  • As we begin to delve into this topic of time and seasons and waiting on God to make all our seasons beautiful in His time, I’m reminded that one way I (Laura) can see His work is to write down what’s happening.  I have little journals for each of my children that haven’t been written in for a while. I think it would be good to dust those off and record the small things (and the big things too) so that I have a little record of how God was with us in challenging times and in the joyful times too.
  • When I (Laura) read verses like these found in Ecclesiastes, I can get a little overly reflective about time.  Thinking about a time to be born is full of promise and newness and hope. But thinking about a time to die can be a little dark.  But I am asking God, and maybe you can too, as we delve into our reflections on time and seasons to show me where He is in that season.  There is such hope in reflecting on Him being with me in my birth and in my death and in every season of life in between. It reminds me that He is with me as I die to myself and am born again into His eternal life.  And that’s a pretty great promise to be overly reflective about. Take some time to meditate on some of the above verses. Ask God to show you where He is in the season you are in currently. Ask Him to show you the Hope of eternity and with that wisdom hopefully you can see how your current season of life is part of the beauty that is coming in time.

{These suggestions are ideas from novice moms. Sometimes our life situations need more.

In that case, seeking out professional help is the right call.}

 

 

 

Share
  • Pin it
  • Share
  • Tweet
  • Share
  • Email

I Dropped My Friend Ball

4 / 23 / 179 / 29 / 17

Laura
Laura

Sigh….   I’ve been juggling a lot lately.  Don’t get me wrong, I like to be busy, but I’ve been so busy lately that I’ve dropped something pretty important: my friends.

Laura
Anna
Anna

Oh yeah! Been there, done that! Unintentionally, but it is easy to do with kids, work, sports, hubby, and all the balls we have to juggle. ⚽⚾???  The “friend ball” gets lost. ? ? ? ?

Anna
Laura
Laura

Yep! Gone with the wind! I’ve realized when I used to  reach out, I’ve been working on other things  I’ve committed to.  I try to work friends in occasionally, but then I don’t follow through. And then I feel guilty because I’m not the “perfect friend”! And then after a while it gets easy to just not communicate. I wonder why I’m lonely?! How do I reconnect?  

Laura
Anna
Anna

Yes… It’s hard to  know where to begin. I start to wonder if they miss me, or need me in their lives? I realize as I’m writing these things, they seem so silly. Because my friend may be thinking the same thing, and the truth is, I DO miss them. I DO need them in my life!

Anna
Laura
Laura

I so DO!!!  There’s just nothing like a good girl-friend in my life! I love being with my boys (usually… wink-wink), I love spending time with my hubby, but I NEED friends to do life with even at a chaotic play-date or a rushed coffee-hour!  And it doesn’t have to be on a regular basis! Life with littles doesn’t afford that luxury like it used to!

Laura
Anna
Anna

Oh I totally struggle with that too. I’m such a “routine person” and I like things to be consistent. It’s so hard to accept it — but you’re right! It’s the stage of life that we’re in right now. It can feel isolating.

Anna
Laura
Laura

And when we are isolated by life’s circumstances, we need friends even more.  We need to hold each other up and sometimes that just takes us reaching out.  I’m all for a phone call, but even just a quick text to say, “How are you? I miss you!”  It could really help me.

Laura
Anna
Anna

Yep It does take a little work to carve out that time to talk with a friend. But it’s so worth the effort! Even if I can’t be a perfect friend, I need to realize that it’s okay to catch up occasionally and randomly.

Anna
Laura
Laura

It is ok! And I never regret grabbing coffee with a friend, even if it is squeezed in between grocery shopping and laundry and always in the middle of nap time on a Sunday.  That’s just what I can do for now!

Laura
Anna
Anna

I wish I had reached out to my friend, Jenny… I regret not doing that and think about it often..

Anna
Laura
Laura

Oh, goodness, Anna!  I forgot.  I bet this conversation has hit a sore spot for you.  How are you feeling about losing your dear friend so unexpectedly?

Laura
Anna
Anna

It’s rough. I still can’t believe she’s gone. And even though she lived in Texas, I wish I had picked up the phone every once in awhile and called her. The reality is, now I can’t. My sister says that her gift to us is that we remember how precious friendships are, and to take the time to let our loved ones know we are thinking about them, whatever that may look like in our current season of life.

Anna
Laura
Laura

It’s amazing that such a sweet lesson blossomed out of such a sad and sudden loss.  I’m sorry that you have the regret, but I hope you know that you don’t have to carry that as burden.  Our God is the God of all comfort!  But I hope that you feel that you can apply that lesson too.  And now, I can as well.  Because you’re so right.  It isn’t hard to reach out in a quick text.  I need to put aside guilt and awkward time gaps, and my idea of perfect friendships, and just reach out when I have a minute.

Laura
Anna
Anna

Thank you! And yes–now I tell myself, “JUST DO IT!” I think of Jenny and I just call, and I’m so glad when I do.

Anna
Laura
Laura

You know, I had a friend recently who I had been neglecting big time because of… well, it’s all excuses, but life.  Anyway, she knew that I was feeling bad about not connecting and she just took it as her personal mission to do all the reaching out during this season of my life.  She literally texted me everyday!  She reminded me I could do the hard tasks.  She just sent me little emoji high fives ??.  And it was great!  She could have been angry or annoyed at me for not being a good friend, but she chose not to pick up that offense and she blessed my socks off, if you know what I mean!

Laura
Anna
Anna

That’s awesome!!! I love that. What a great example of how to be a good friend.

Anna
Laura
Laura

Exactly!  I think with Jenny’s gift to us in mind and my friends’ example, we have what we need to give ourselves grace to be a good (not perfect) friend! I’m ready to pick that friend ball back up and throw it in that air and try to catch it along with everything else!  I won’t regret that and hopefully I can be there for someone else when they need it.

Laura

Soaking in the Truth

Scripture to encourage you:

  • “One who loves a pure heart and who speaks with grace will have the king for a friend.” (Proverbs 22:11, NIV).
  • “A friend loves at all times.” (Proverbs 17:17a, NIV)
  • “And Jonathan had David reaffirm his oath out of love for him, because he loved him as he loved himself… ‘Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with each other in the name of the Lord.’” (1 Samuel 20:17, 42)

Music to inspire you:

  • “Friends” by Michael W. Smith (because who doesn’t love good ’80’s Christian Ballad?)

Readings and Resources to come alongside of you:

  • “An Open Letter to My Friends Who Don’t Have Kids” by Janie Porter
  • “Lonely Mommy: How Motherhood Took a Toll on my Friendships” from Shasta’s Friendship Blog (there are a lot of resources about friendship here!)
  • “Friendships in Motherhood” by Mary Byers posted on Hearts at Home

Living Out the Truth

Ideas to try:

  • Set aside a block of time (even just 20 minutes!) to reconnect in some way to the people you need in your life.  Send a text message, write a note and send it in the mail (gasp!), or pick up the phone and just reach out.  I’ve even found it helpful to use Facetime or Skype to connect with my friends when I can’t actually be with them.  It’s nice to see her face (and her kids’ faces) especially if you’re “trapped” inside due to sickness or baby’s 3 nap times or whatever!
  • Put a little gift in your friend’s mailbox. When we don’t have time sit down for coffee or chat for an hour on the phone, a little gesture is good too!
  • Find just one friend you can pray for who will pray for you.  It’s nice to know that even if you can’t meet and talk like you once could (I hopefully will be able to again in the future), you are building each other up through prayer.  

 

{These suggestions are ideas from novice moms. Sometimes our life situations need more.

In that case, seeking out professional help is the right call.}

Share
  • Pin it
  • Share
  • Tweet
  • Share
  • Email

Posts navigation

Previous Page 1 2

About Us!

We don’t claim to have motherhood figured out. Actually quite the opposite. We’re a group of women who first and foremost love the Lord and want to honor Him with our lives and talents. And we decided that what better way for us to sort out this beautiful and messy thing called motherhood but to process it together in text messages? Our prayer is that as we share our real-life stories and honest experiences, every mom who visits our blog will receive tangible truth and experience real grace.

Connect with Us!

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • BlogLovin
  • Email

Stay Connected

Enter your email address below to receive notifications of text messages by email!

Categories

  • #atasteoftextingthetruth
  • #autumn2019
  • #beautifulinHistime
  • #bemomstrong
  • #christmas2019
  • #Coronavirus2020
  • #newbeginnings2020
  • #simplechristmas
  • #smallshifts
  • #Spring2020
  • #summer2019
  • #summer2020
  • #thetruthaboutgrowingup
  • #thetruthaboutsummer
  • #warmthinthewinter
  • Anxiety
  • Being Honest
  • Brave Mom
  • Communication
  • Expectations
  • Friendship
  • Holidays
  • Let's Chat
  • Marriage
  • Me Too Moment
  • Mental Health
  • Mom Fails
  • Mom Fears
  • Mom Guilt
  • Mom Identity
  • Mom Life
  • Mom Memories
  • Mom Pride
  • Mom Time
  • Mom Win
  • Moms in Progress
  • Relationships
  • School
  • Special Needs
  • Tired Mom
  • Uncategorized
  • Working Mom

Search this Site



Tags

anger Anna Brink Anxiety balance Christmas comparison coronavirus discipline Easter faith Fear Forgiveness friendship God grace grief Humility husband identity Janelle Gibbs Jen Moore Jesus Jo Perkins juggling Katie Duh Laura Freytag marriage memories Michelle Warner Mistakes Mom Fail mom guilt Moms in Progress mom win Mom Win Wednesday perfectionism perspective prayer resentment rest Social Media summer surrender trust Virginia Forste

Recent Posts

  • “Mom-sters” Hungry for Peace and Laughter
  • Dream Big, Hope for More, and Don’t Settle
  • Leaving a Legacy
  • Thieves of Joy
  • Reflections on a Blog’s 4th Birthday

Share the Love ♥

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • BlogLovin
  • Email

About

Submissions

Contact Us

Disclosure

Advertising

We Believe

Site made with ♥ by Kristen McCall
Angie Makes Feminine WordPress Themes