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Mom Win Wednesday: Anna Brink

12 / 21 / 1612 / 23 / 16

Michelle
Michelle

Today we’re excited to feature one of our blog team writers, Anna Brink!

Michelle
Anna
Anna

Hi! Here’s my selfie! The mop of curly hair in my lap belongs to my four-year old, who is inevitably on my lap in the mornings.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Ha, I can relate. Do you wear any other hats in addition to your [big, gigantic, hugely significant] Mom Hat?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

I’m a wife, daughter, sister, and aunt. Those are also hugely significant hats to me. But beyond that, I am part of the Communications Team at my church. I work on everything from the website and social media to writing and editing. Speaking of, in addition to Texting the Truth, I write for the women’s ministry blog at my church called Our Redeemed Lives: Imperfect Women Made Whole in Christ.  I love using my communication skills to support the awesome ministries at our church. Also, in my free time (haha), I direct a middle school musical in the winter at the school I used to teach at. Right now we are dancing to “Move It, Move It!” in Madagascar Jr! 

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

I love what you said about being a mom, wife, daughter, sister, aunt first. As moms we can do so many things but that’s such a good reminder that those primary roles are so special. For me personally, I don’t want to get caught up in wearing all of my other hats that I lose sight of how important those primary roles are. Thanks for sharing that. So tell us about your kids…

Michelle
Anna
Anna

We have a 10-year old daughter, 7-year old son, and 4-year old daughter. These three are beautiful, funny, challenging, surprising, predictable and yet unpredictable, all wrapped up into one pretty cute package (or at least we think so). ?

I feel like I’m entering into an interesting stage of motherhood (not like there was ever a dull moment). But I’m at a point where I have a pre-teen, entering puberty and asking all pre-teen-type questions; a preschooler, who still just wants to play puzzles and marvel at the clouds; and one in the middle, who just wants to toss the ball and play with me (like  constantly). They are all at such different stages of their childhood (which is fun), but I feel like I need to switch gears all the time.
And I want to say, honestly, to my friends with little ones: If you are worried that after your babies grow up, there won’t be any “precious moments” anymore…there won’t be cuddle time or bonding time…there still is. It changes; it looks a little different. But every stage has its precious moments, the ups and the downs that come with the age.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Love that. What is a recent mom win you experienced that took time and perseverance to accomplish?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

My ten-year old has been struggling in school for the first time, ever. She’s always coasted through, working hard but loving every minute and not needing my help. She learned how to read with ease, loved doing her homework, and tested gifted in many subjects. This year, however, things changed. Her teachers said she was withdrawn, wasn’t participating or talking, had missing assignments, and seemed “zoned out” most of the time. She’d sneak to read her book under her desk instead of pay attention in Social Studies. This wasn’t like her at all. In fact, this was the opposite of her “normal.” Welcome to middle school.
After weeks of talking to teachers, talking with her, crying, praying, talking with my husband, and giving her strategies to try in class, and working with her in the evenings, she seems to have jumped this hurdle. Or at least, we are finding a way to jump it together. It has taken perseverance every day to help her get to this point. We are so determined to get her through this year, and most importantly, to get her to participate and regain her confidence in school.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Thanks for your transparency in sharing that. I know all of us moms can relate to how much perseverance it sometimes takes to  help our kids win. And as you mentioned, when that happens, it is a big win for us as mom too.?

So what is a mom win that you would text your best friend?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

My son’s reading is now at the Level G! This is great news because he started off the first grade this year a little bit behind and not liking reading much at all.

 

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

? YAY! Anything else you want to share?

Michelle
Anna
Anna

I’m learning in my personal and spiritual life that I can trust God to guide the direction of my life. I can tell Him about the things that weigh down my heart, and He will answer. My job is to trust, and to follow, as best as I can, in faith. Faith is a muscle that we have to use in order for it to grow stronger.

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

I can definitely attest to that in my own life too. Thanks so much for sharing today. I respect who you are as a mom and so thankful you share your insights with us.

Michelle

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Managing Mayhem and Tornadoes

12 / 19 / 164 / 12 / 18

Laura
Laura

Okay, guys, My hubby invited some guys and a few of their kids over for a Sunday afternoon football game yesterday.  No big thing.  I hardly even felt pressure to clean the bathroom! The boys and I did take the time to pick up the toys in the basement, so there would be space for the 8 kids to play, but that was it…

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Ha, I am cracking up thinking about how when we know company is coming over, we run through the cleaning meter – does this mean we have to clear off the counters or just pick up the playroom?? Good work not going overboard. ?

Michelle
Laura
Laura

?

I kept my cleanliness desires in check this time!  I didn’t even apologize to them that everything wasn’t perfect!  

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

I mean, that deserves a slow clap right there!! ?

Michelle
Laura
Laura

Thank you, thank you very much! Lol!

 

Well, because the guys were “in charge,” I went upstairs to do my own thing for a bit, and then I heard it!  Smashing.  Crashing.  Chaos.  I dared not go down!

Laura
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

I can clearly picture the internal struggle – can you ignore what you just heard and pretend like it didn’t happen?  ?

Jessica Sorosiak
Michelle
Michelle

Love our men dearly but – do you think they even noticed what all was happening with the game on? ?

Michelle
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Probably not – but there’s something to be said about having a one track mind! #itisscience #iamjealous

Jessica Sorosiak
Laura
Laura

Exactly, because the kids run up to me and say they dumped out every single bin of toys because they were pretending to be criminals. ?

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Ha, like it was really needed that every last bin was thrown over in the hunt for the bad guys!! They really have no idea how that mess translates in a mom’s head!

Michelle
Laura
Laura

I felt like they really were criminals!  That mess was a crime against MY clean basement!  

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Ha, yes! #whatgoesthroughamomshead

Michelle
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Haha!  I know that feeling!

Jessica Sorosiak
Laura
Laura

Sadly, this is pretty typical behavior around here.  We literally called Jesse “mayhem” when he was just months old.  There seriously should be an insurance commercial about toddlers.  They can totally keep up with that Mayhem guy!

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Oh, my daughters could definitely star in that commercial! Especially Ellie. Last week I was getting ready to host some MOPS moms for our Christmas party and literally ten minutes before everyone was arriving, she threw out every single plate in her drawer all over the kitchen floor! She is like a little tornado! She’s a cute tornado, but holy cow, she sure loves to stir up a mess!

Michelle
Laura
Laura

I know what you mean. I don’t think Jesse  intentionally tries to be destructive, but I think it may just be part of his DNA. ? So I told him we had  to clean it up.  A phrase he has heard about a million times in his short life.  Today, fortunately for him, my anger was tempered by guests. ?

Laura
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Sometimes I’m grateful for the presence of other people.  It helps me react in the way I should, rather in the way I want (which is always overly emotional).

Jessica Sorosiak
Laura
Laura

Yes!! Anyway, this got me thinking about the messes I make.  I mean, I can make a good mess in the name of a project! ???

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Oh, me too. Much to my hubby’s chagrin!

Michelle
Laura
Laura

Yeah, mine too. But I’m not just talented at making a physical mess.  I can make a real mess of my family or even my friendships or my mind with just a few unchecked thoughts or words that dump out of my heart/mouth faster than Jesse can dump every bin of toys in the basement!

Laura
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

I’ve walked that path more times than I care to admit.  Sometimes words come out of my mouth that are not loving and I instantly regret them.  I know I lose my temper way too quickly with my three-year-old and I’ve said some hurtful things.

Jessica Sorosiak
Michelle
Michelle

Oh, I can sadly join that club too. I seem to be the master of letting crazy thoughts cruise down the what-if path and freak myself out before I reign them in. Ugh.

Michelle
Laura
Laura

That feeling of regret and shame is a heavy burden! But you know what else I thought of?

Laura
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

Please tell me it’s something helpful because I’m feeling really guilty right now! ?

Jessica Sorosiak
Laura
Laura

God can completely clean up our messes.  In fact, He already has!  His forgiveness comes before I even ask.  

Laura
Jessica Sorosiak
Jessica Sorosiak

That’s such a hard thing to accept, but you’re right!

Jessica Sorosiak
Michelle
Michelle

Don’t you wish there was a button we could press in these moments to actually internalize this grace? I mean, I know He gives me grace but actually living like it is a whole other story. Amazing what it would like in my motherhood and in my life if I truly accepted His grace. 

Michelle
Laura
Laura

Yes! And that doesn’t mean there won’t be consequences for my actions.  There will be apologies, maybe tough conversations, and probably time to rebuild trust.  But in the midst there we are… as white as the snow in my backyard (before the boys went all mayhem on it!).  That’s a clean up I can get on board with– fast!

Laura

 

Soaking in the Truth

 

Scripture to encourage you:

    • If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9
    • Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Ephesians 4:32
    • Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.  Hebrews 4:16

Music to inspire you:

    • Grace Wins by Matthew West
    • Jesus Paid It All

Readings to come alongside of you:

    • How to Keep Yourself From Yelling at Kids Even When You are Hopping Mad by A Fine Parent
    • What If I Did This Parenting-Thing with Grace by Kacey Van Norman
    • Grace-Based Parenting by Tim Kimmel

 

Living Out the Truth

 

Ideas to try:

    • When my hubby and I start to overreact to a mess or any situation really, we just look at one another and say, “molehill.”  This reminds us to take a deep breathe, even when the mess is really bad, and treat our kids with kindness and see the problem as molehill, not a mountain.  It doesn’t always work, but it a strategy!
    • Apologize!  It sounds simple, but it can be difficult.  If you find yourself regretting how you handled a situation with your child, pull them aside and apologize to them for your behavior.  Not only does this model good behaviors for them to use in the future, but it can open up the opportunity for a conversation about what happened in a loving way.
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