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Mom Win Wednesday: Tricia Rife

4 / 18 / 184 / 25 / 18

Michelle
Michelle

I’m so happy to welcome Tricia Rife to our blog today! We wrote together for Cru’s magazine a looong time ago before we got married.? It’s fun to chat again! Welcome, Tricia!

Michelle
Tricia

Hi there! I thought I would introduce this photo:

It was taken after my recent birthday celebration! A simple selfie and yet so reflective of who we are. (Husband is Adam and son is Andrew.)

Michelle
Michelle

Aw, such a fun and real life photo! So tell us – do you wear any other hats in addition to your [big, gigantic, hugely significant] Mom Hat?

Michelle
Tricia

I work full-time at The Wesleyan Church Headquarters in Fishers, Indiana. I help maintain the news and blog posts on their website. I also have a personal blog . I am also part of a non-profit organization that provides support and encouragement to current NICU moms. ?

Michelle
Michelle

I love that you have gotten involved with the NICU because I know God has worked miraculously in your NICU experience. Will you tell us a little bit about your sweet Andrew and his story?

Michelle
Tricia

Andrew is my busy, sweet, and strong four-year-old. He’s my miracle baby, born 10 weeks early with an unconnected esophagus. Since his birth in February 2014 he has endured numerous surgeries, procedures, challenges, complications, and yet many victories! One of my greatest joys is watching him eat like a normal kid, since he was originally born unable to swallow. ?

Michelle
Michelle

It has been amazing to watch God work in his life and also in yours. I can relate all to well to the worries of a mama’s heart and watching you trust God in the midst of such fears has been such an encouragement to me. In light of all you’ve gone through with him, what is a mom win you have experienced?

Michelle
Tricia

Andrew recently spent six days in the hospital. A viral respiratory infection turned into pneumonia. He’s very prone to respiratory illnesses because of his chronic lung disease and a floppy airway. He’s been in the hospital with respiratory-related illnesses three times since December 2016. A common cold can land him in the hospital requiring extra breathing treatments and oxygen support. Trusting the Lord with Andrew’s respiratory health is an ongoing battle for me and when I am not living in anxiety about it, I consider that a HUGE “win.”

Michelle
Michelle

I think we all can relate to the every day struggle of trusting God with our children. I have not walked through what you have, but I can imagine I would react similarly. I definitely agree that when I choose faith over fear even for a moment, it is a huge mom win. ❤

What is a mom win that you texted your best friend during that ordeal?

Michelle
Tricia

I overcame anxiety today by believing God’s truth! ? I am reminded that He is the keeper of Andrew’s days and Andrew’s health and that He is trustworthy. I do not need to be afraid of what tomorrow brings because God will be faithful tomorrow just as He was faithful today.

Michelle
Michelle

Wow, Tricia! I love  that. I need to print that out and put it on my mirror to remind myself daily of that truth. Any other words of encouragement to share to other moms in the trenches like you?

Michelle
Tricia

Just keep trusting God’s promises over your kids! The days or circumstances may not always be easy, but God is faithful over and over and over again. I have seen His faithfulness played out daily over the last four years, and He will faithful again tomorrow.

Michelle
Michelle

Yes! And I love that those words are not just trite words but words that you have wrestled with and grown to believe through this motherhood journey. Thank you so much for sharing your heart and such amazing truth with us today. I needed this today and I am sure many other mamas did too! ❤

Michelle

 

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Decluttering Our Spiritual Closets

9 / 18 / 179 / 19 / 17

Today we begin texting one another about our fall theme, #thetruthaboutgrowingup! We are very excited to work this topic out with one another and with you both here on the blog and on social media. As we asked God what He would like us to write about, we felt like He was showing us how we (and our kids) are “growing up.” First Peter 2:2 says, “You’ve had a taste of God. Now, like infants at the breast, drink deep of God’s pure kindness. Then you’ll grow up mature and whole in God.”  

Below you will find our introduction to #thetruthaboutgrowingup. We ask that as you discover areas of growth in your own life and in the lives of your kids, that you would #drinkdeep with us and use these hashtags over on social media so we can share in this experience together.

Laura
Laura

Does anyone else have a hard time keeping up with the constant changing out of clothes in drawers and closets?!  I mean, if it’s not the changing of the season, then these kids just grow so fast and all of a sudden nothing in their drawers fit! ? There are literally clothes all over my house all the time! ????????

Laura
Anna
Anna

Yes! The clothes are haunting me too!?  At this rate, I’ll be sorting until I die. “R.I.P. Anna… She was a good mom, but she should have sorted clothes a little faster.”

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

Haha. Maybe we just need to adopt that popular clutter-free method everyone’s been talking about? It would make things a lot simpler!

Michelle
Laura
Laura

True! I wonder if I’ve been applying that method to my life and not just my closets. Lately, I’ve been thinking about what doesn’t  fit me anymore, and I’m not talking about jeans and t-shirts here… Some days I can actually realize what spiritual clothes I’ve cleaned out of my heart-wardrobe.  

Laura
Anna
Anna

Whoa, you just got deep on us, Laura. And the former English teacher in me can’t wait to hear this…

Anna
Laura
Laura

? Yeah, sorry.  I guess it’s just that when I look back at what used to be important to me and compare it with what is important now, I just feel, I don’t know… grown up?

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Ooo, good stuff, Laura. Hmmm, a clutter free spiritual closet?So what kinds of things are you sorting through?

Michelle
Laura
Laura

Well, I’ve had to sort through a lot of emotions and heartache.  I’ve asked myself why I react the way I do in my relationships with others.  So I made the decision to take off certain feelings and “rights.”  And honestly, I’m still doing this. It’s a process.

Laura
Anna
Anna

Sounds amazing, but hard.

Anna
Laura
Laura

It was and is hard, but it hasn’t killed me. And it’s made me closer to God. It’s freed me up to be a more true version of myself. And it takes as long as it needs to take. God isn’t rushing me to sort through things by some “deadline.”  It’s not like I am going to sell my old stuff at a garage sale! And like the kids’ clothes, there’s always more sorting to go!  ?

Laura
Anna
Anna

Like what are you taking off, exactly?

Anna
Laura
Laura

Well, recently I’ve been focusing on taking off my feelings of resentment, and putting on forgiveness.

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

Right there with ya.  I’m also in the process of packing up fear and putting on peace.

Michelle
Anna
Anna

I’d like to join you in both of those wardrobe changes, but girls, just being honest… Sometimes I don’t think it’s that easy to just take something off. My hurt is too deep, or my habits are really stuck. I wish I could just toss it off, but it might be like ripping off skin-tight leather pants! ?

(Not that I have ever tried that, LOL.)

Anna
Michelle
Michelle

That visual made me crack up, but girl, I hear ya! That’s why I said I am in the *process* of it. HA. ? I feel like I’ve been trying to get rid of fear for a long time but there always seem to be new layers. So I guess for me, it’s taking off one layer at a time.

Michelle
Anna
Anna

That I think I can do. One layer for today. ?

Anna
Laura
Laura

I think one layer at a time sounds perfect.  You can strip off another layer next season!  And anyway, whether it’s one layer at a time or you just throw it all out at once, there’s this fantastic feeling you get.  You know the one when you finally sort through actual clothes?  You give bags away or sell them at your local MOPS garage sale?

Laura
Michelle
Michelle

YES! Pure relief when you are waving goodbye to them!

Michelle
Anna
Anna

Anna
Laura
Laura

Exactly! When we sort through all these emotions and make the hard choices to pack up the past, even if it is one layer at a time, and live a new way, it feels sooooo good!

Laura
Anna
Anna

Then we get the best part. Open space. Space to breathe. And it can be filled with new, good thoughts and emotions. Space to hear from God. Space to grow up.

Anna

Soaking in the Truth

Scripture to encourage you:

  • “You’ve had a taste of God. Now, like infants at the breast, drink deep of God’s pure kindness. Then you’ll grow up mature and whole in God.” (1 Peter 2:2, The Message).
  • Colossians 3 (We know… normally we just put the verse here, but this chapter is so good!  Please read it!!)

Music to inspire you:

  • “That Was Then, This is Now” by Josh Wilson

Readings and Resources to come alongside of you:

  • “Me, Myself, and Lies: A Thought Closet Makeover” by Jennifer Rothschild

 

Living Out the Truth

Ideas to try:

  • Thanks to Anna, I’ve started singing the lyrics “growin’ up is hard to do-oo” to the tune “Breakin’ Up Is Hard To Do.”  So I’ve started thinking about what I could put on to make the process easier.  I didn’t have to look much further than Ephesians 6.  The armor of God.  One reason I think growing up is so hard is because I can get offended and hurt by just about anything. (a post on social media that makes me feel left out, my husband’s love of football seeming like it’s more important than I am, my boys’ words–”you’re cooking is so bad, mommy!” and the list can go on).  But with the armor of God I can hear those words differently.  I can hear them in the context of truth and faith and in the light of God’s Word.  Pray for the armor of God to protect you from offence.  Living at peace with one another requires that we cover over other’s sin with love. ~Laura

{These suggestions are ideas from novice moms. Sometimes our life situations need more.

In that case, seeking out professional help is the right call.}

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